May 2, 2008...11:22 am
Imperfections? No worries.
For everybody’s sake. The world we live in IS IMPERFECT by the way.
It comes a point whereby we act with expectations upon ourselves to attain certain living styles and when we don’t see that happening to the people around us (they just don’t heap the same kind of expectations on themselves), we don’t feel good.
This kind of thinking = Naive = Foolish = Plainly DUMB.
Why do we set the same kind of living expectations on people just because we are living that manner?
Don’t you think its stifling to them?
God made us all unique in His sight and equal in His sight too. This cannot possibly be achieved by Man. Well, if you are ever feeling this manner of SORENESS, there’s STILL HOPE.. Just don’t keep dwelling in being SORE. Learn to align your thoughts. It helps. At least, it really helped me. I had been pretty sore over this kind of thinking. It is not a good feeling by the way. But I realised that things happen to shape my thinking. Without A, I wouldn’t have been behaving in a certain manner. Likewise without B, I wouldn’t have been surviving well. There will be lots of other C, D, E… etcs, in LIFE. At the end of the day, it is important that we don’t blame things that happened. Embracing life challenges and changes are certainly very challenging.
Certainly I had once thought and had once put certain things very precious and closed to my heart. For certain reasons, it no longer matters like it does previously to me. Haha.. Everyone.. you and me, has their own rights to live their lives. In this process called LIFE, there are lots of learnings that each of us, individually will have to take on.. be it born in any kind of families. Be it mistakes or not.. it all need learning and still learning. 
The main focus is, move on and stay strong, know that no matter what, the ones around you in your life, still love you very much. Nobody is perfect. Not me, not you. This doesn’t mean to say making mistakes is no big deal, no one cares anyway. This means to say, you make a mistake, you learn from it. You don’t condemn yourself, and you don’t go around condemning others if you haven’t make that mistake. There is always a time for learning. Some learn certain things earlier, some learn it just later, thats all. At the end of the day, there shouldn’t be any condemnations formed in anyone.
Remember, God is the judge. Not me, not you. 
walkergal
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